Comments on: Dating Excuses Every Widow Should Retire

By: Kim Murray

Kim Murray — Sat, 17 Oct 2020 08:28:44 +0000

In reply to Char. Hi Char, it can be so scary! But also worth it ❤.

By: Char

Char — Sat, 17 Oct 2020 04:29:47 +0000

Hi Kim,
Great post! It definitely made me skirmish a bit, (I’m just a 9 month widow), but I know that one day I want to experience that special love again. I don’t want to go it alone forever.
Dating is such a scary word! Eeeek! Almost makes me nauseas to think about….But there will come a day.
Thanks for your posts and great insight!

By: Kim Murray

Kim Murray — Fri, 16 Oct 2020 16:31:52 +0000

In reply to Rachel Mckellar. Hi Rachel, I hope you find that connection again too. The grief never really goes away. We just learn to make room for it. So you can have both if you train your brain to quit giving you reasons why you can't 😊.

By: Rachel Mckellar

Rachel Mckellar — Fri, 16 Oct 2020 16:12:51 +0000

I just wanted to say that reading your about this has put many things in perspective for me. I to have had the same emotional roller coaster. Although I’m still grieving, I know that I long for the emotions that come with being in a relationship. I hope to find that connection again.

By: Kim Murray

Kim Murray — Fri, 16 Oct 2020 14:24:30 +0000

In reply to Sharon🍎. Hi Sharon, age has nothing to do with it. You're a catch in many ways...adorable and funny and kind. Anyone you date will be lucky indeed 🤗.

By: Sharon🍎

Sharon🍎 — Fri, 16 Oct 2020 12:41:29 +0000

Kim,
I needed your words of wisdom more than you know! At my age, I feel I can never find companionship again. I want to be loved! I want someone to hold my hand! And, hug me again! I sometimes feel there’s no light of my life again. And, of course, no one will ever replace my husband , but I’d like to feel loved again. It such a lonely world for me, even after almost 2 years.