Comments on: Kick Widow Guilt to the Curb – Here’s How https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/ On a quest to make widowhood suck a little less Tue, 13 Aug 2024 13:52:39 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Kim Murray https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-2646 Tue, 22 Jun 2021 10:29:04 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-2646 In reply to Nan S.

Hi Nan, you get to go on living while you’re still alive and that means it’s absolutely OK to be happy and in love and to do whatever else brings you joy 💛.

]]> By: Nan S https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-2645 Tue, 22 Jun 2021 07:37:48 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-2645 I want to thank you so much. I ran on this by accident. This year it will be 15 years l lost my beloved husband. I talk to him all a time. But I fallen in love with someone else. It was so hard to just keep it just a friend ship. I feel at so guilty at times. Everything you said has fit me so much. But now I know it’s ok to be happy. He will be with me always but the man in my world deserve all the love that is in me just like I gave my husband we we together 42 years.
God let me here for a reason.
Thank Gods Blessings

]]> By: Kim Murray https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-903 Mon, 09 Nov 2020 22:50:33 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-903 In reply to Maria Muller.

Hi Maria, I’m happy to hear you’re choosing joy in your life. You know the sadness doesn’t disappear. It just means that you get to decide how to think and feel about it ❤.

]]> By: Maria Muller https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-902 Mon, 09 Nov 2020 21:54:20 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-902 Thank you so much for posting this.it described everything I am feeling and I’m looking forward to getting rid of guilt.i choose joy in my life till I see him again

]]> By: Kim Murray https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-823 Fri, 02 Oct 2020 11:38:25 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-823 In reply to Brittany.

Hi Brittany, you’re still alive so you get to keep on living. It’s 100 % possible to grieve and miss your husband while also living a fulfilling life. But it takes time to settle in to your new reality (feel all the feelings, practice self-compassion, and shush your inner critic) before you’ll start to believe it ❤.

]]> By: Brittany https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-822 Fri, 02 Oct 2020 00:06:37 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-822 This is exactly what I needed to “hear”. My husband has been gone for 22 days. All I do now is tend to our daughter and volunteer as much as I can so I can escape the memories in our house. But in the evening, it’s impossible to escape them. I can’t stand to watch our favorite shows or movies. I can’t stand to work on our car as he taught me to. I can’t even change my sheets because then his scent will be gone for good. It’s so hard to enjoy anything without hating the fact I’m enjoying it without him. It’s nice to know I’m not crazy since others have felt this too

]]> By: Kim Murray https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-599 Tue, 23 Jun 2020 11:30:49 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-599 In reply to Antonella Totino.

Antonella, here’s hoping you find a way to release it and be kind to yourself in the process ❤.

]]> By: Antonella Totino https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-598 Tue, 23 Jun 2020 03:03:43 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-598 Everything I’m going through.
Hard to see it in writing though. Wow.
Thank you for such honesty yet so much understanding..

Antonella

]]> By: Kim Murray https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-570 Mon, 15 Jun 2020 16:56:03 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-570 In reply to Mathew.

Thanks, Mathew!

]]> By: Mathew https://widow411.com/kick-guilt-to-the-curb-heres-how/#comment-566 Mon, 15 Jun 2020 13:50:52 +0000 https://www.widow411.com/?p=2375#comment-566 What a great read. Almost as if you were in my mind. Thank you for sharing your opinions and lived experience. Sometimes it’s just what we need.

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