The Obvious Reason You’re Not Bat-Shit Crazy

The Obvious Reason You’re Not Bat-Shit Crazy

Short and Sweet Summary: Even though some days it’s hard to determine whether or not you’re bat-shit crazy, there’s one indisputable reason to put your fears to rest. Crazy people don’t typically qualify whether or not they’re crazy. So, I have this deep, guttural voice that emerges when I’ve reached my limit and can no…

Why You Shouldn’t Try to Outrun Grief

Why You Shouldn’t Try to Outrun Grief

Short and Sweet Summary: Grief has something to tell you and something to show you. You can’t outrun grief and you don’t get to decide when it pays a visit. But, you must invite grief in when it comes knocking. It’s the only way. My husband was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer on February 14,…

How to Ignore the Chicken Little Voice in Your Head

How to Ignore the Chicken Little Voice in Your Head

Short and Sweet Summary: When the sky is falling and hysteria takes over your brain, train yourself to stop overthinking the worst-case scenario like Chicken Little did. He believed everything everyone ever told him. How about trying to believe you’re capable of finding a solution instead? Has this happened to you? You’re going along all…

How To Write a Decent Thank You Note

How To Write a Decent Thank You Note

Short and Sweet Summary: Thank you notes are a friendly acknowledgment when someone goes out of his or her way to do something nice for you. But how do you write a decent thank you note when you’re widow brain can’t focus? After my husband died, several weeks worth of dinners arrived on my doorstep…