Knock Your Dead Husband Off the Perfection Pedestal
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Why You Need to Knock Your Dead Husband off the Perfection Pedestal (He Ain’t No Saint)

Short and Sweet Summary: For years after my husband’s death, I only remembered his charming, likable characteristics in an effort to honor his soul. To make his time on Earth mean something. My dead husband’s position on the perfection pedestal rose higher and higher while I sunk deeper into negative self-talk because my kids were…

How a Parent's Death Teaches Our Kids Life's Most Important Lessons
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How a Parent’s Death Teaches Kids About Life’s Greatest Lessons

Short and Sweet Summary: Our kids are learning life’s greatest lessons at an earlier age than most. Although we’d love to protect our kids from heartache and pain, adversity really does breed character. Bad things happen to good people all the time. We can’t prevent the hardships in our lives but we can decide how…

Emergency Fund for Widows
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An Emergency Fund is Paramount to Your Mental Health – Here’s Why

Short and Sweet Summary: Now that you’re on your own, setting up an emergency fund is a practical way to reduce stress and ease the financial anxiety that comes with those not-planned-for emergencies. Cutting a few monthly expenses could help fund your emergency account and give you the peace of mind to handle any crisis…

You Are In Absolute Control of These 5 Things
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You Are in Absolute Control of These 5 Things

Short and Sweet Summary: If you’ve surrendered your last remaining slivers of control to grief’s black abyss, it’s time for a friendly intervention. You are in control of a lot more than you think. When your life shatters in ways you wouldn’t wish on your worst enemy, it’s easy to feel like you have no…

Critical Steps to Managing Widow Brain
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3 Critical Steps to Managing Widow Brain

Short and Sweet Summary: Widowhood is already full of heartache and pain and when your brain isn’t functioning at its optimal capacity, it’s frustrating as hell. When you can’t find the right words or you keep forgetting things, take a deep breath. And practice these suggestions to ease the frustration of managing widow brain moments…