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Let me ask you a question.

Can you relate to any (or all) of the following?

  • Do you feel overwhelmed by your day-to-day activities?
  • Are you anxious about everything you have to manage solo?
  • Is grief holding you hostage?
  • Does confusion prevent you from remembering simple words and phrases?
  • Is anger interfering with your interpersonal relationships?
  • Are you sad for most of the day?

I see you and I hear you.

And I’ve got some ways to help.

This page is a good place to start when you don’t know how to manage the overwhelm, what to do with your confusing feelings, or how to sort out all of your additional responsibilities. Here you’ll find some of the most practical Widow 411 posts below to help you navigate your widow journey.

If you’re curious about what the Widow 411 site has to offer and the short version of how I became a widow, check out the About page for more information. To learn more about my personal journey before and after widowhood, head on over to the long(er) story.

When anxiety rears its ugly head – and it will – come back here to find answers to questions I and countless other widows face every day.

BEFORE YOU GO ANY FURTHER

Do you need help with all the post-death tasks?

If you’re a recent widow whose overwhelm is at an all-time high because you struggle with indecision about what post-death tasks to complete first, when to complete them and how to get it all done, don’t worry. This guide can help!

I appreciate you. Thanks so much for being here and taking the time to learn more about what Widow 411 has to offer.

I think we’ll be great friends! I hope you know you’re not alone and I will help guide you through the hard parts. Just so you know, I don’t have it “all figured out.” I’m learning as I go, too. But maybe we can learn and grow and figure it all out together. I want to hear from you and learn how to make this website better, offer more of what you’re looking for and be a reliable resource during your darkest days. Reach out to me at any time. I read each and every email.

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